As some of you already know, I’ve been learning French for a while. Well, it’s more learning words actually, as main Duolingo exercises are about translating. So, no wonder that I can understand a warning sign on my microwave and simple comic pictures in the Internet.
About a month ago I decided to do some language exchange. I remember myself craving to find ‘a real foreigner’ to speak English with back to my university days. Internet made everything soooo much easier! There is no need to go abroad to talk to native speakers, you don’t even need to pay for it – because there are people who are eager to speak their native language with you as long as you speak your mother tongue with them.
There are several websites that offer exchange, but I took advantage of FaceBook and found something to my liking close at hand. There’s a great community for those who teach and learn languages
#WeDoLanguages that I have been reading for some time. You know, it’s motivating to find out about people speaking five, eight or more languages. So once, when reading my news feed, I stumbled on
#swapsunday there and thought ‘why not?’ I wrote a comment about what languages I speak and which one I want to train. I had several comments and there was one suitable with dates and times, so we arranged a meeting.
Can you imagine what was happening during my first talk with a French guy? His Russian was on the same level as my French. That day we exchanged embarrassing smiles rather than language. When drinking tea to calm myself down after this ‘talking’, I wondered why it went so wrong. And that it clicked. As a language user, I missed one thing that is always in my mind when teaching. That’s planning.
As a teacher, I always have a plan for the lesson. Plan A, plan B and plan C when come to think of it. Because there are lots of things that may go differently during the session. But for this meeting I prepared nothing, I was going to be a participant not a teacher after all. My mistake. You see, one never goes to meetings without preparation. He or she tries to predict (or just knows) what is going to happen there. So one is ready with his words or arguments. And there I was, completely unaware what to expect after ‘nice-to-meet-yous’ and ‘how-are-yous’. Awkward, really. But we agreed to talk to each other again in a week. And this time I did my home work:
1. decided what I want to talk about
2. decided on my story and questions I want to ask
3. made some notes and wrote out the words I might need
4. prepared phrases ‘how do you say that’ and ‘could you speak louder/more slowly’ (I desperately needed them during our first talk)
5. tried to imagine our conversation and questions I might be asked, and practiced answering
As a result, our second meeting was far more successful than the first one. Of course, we smiled, gestured and muttered ‘I don’t know this word in your language’ every now and then. But we talked. After our third meeting I felt I really could say a few words and ask simple questions. I started building my confidence. That’s a wonderful feeling when you have an idea of what you want to say and suddenly you realize you know how to say it! May be you’d say it better in your mother tongue, may be it takes two or three times to repeat it in order to be understood. But you’ve done it!
This experience reminded me that teacher or not, planning and preparation matter. Easy to keep in mind, takes some time to complete. But becomes essential when you are there in the ‘real world’. And that is what I want to offer you – a weekly speaking practice. There are a lot of topics to discuss. And you’ll have your time to prepare, speak out your opinion and listen to others’ in a closed FB group.